@hacks4pancakes
I have another thing to add… with Valentine’s Day coming up a lot of people look to others for love but it doesn’t only have to be that way.
It’s okay to:
take yourself on a little date,
do something nice for yourself in the present moment,
do nice little acts of #kindness for your future self,
take yourself to a #concert, a #movie, a #theatre show,
buy yourself #flowers,
eat at your fave restaurant,
get yourself a lovely drink or ice cream,
set aside some special #tea, coffee, chocolate, bath bombs, #selfcare items for tough days,
be your own best friend for a day, treat yourself and encourage yourself like you would a best friend or a lover
buy some new clothing, house / kitchenware, perfume/cologne, toys or supplies for your hobby,
find yourself a new #style or try the #aesthetic you’ve always wanted to, or reinvent yourself (if you cannot afford it you can repurpose/rework/up cycle or trade some of your current things or #thrift for something that works for you),
join a new club,
learn a new skill or restart an old one,
quit a skill or hobby and take up a new one,
stop reading a book, watching a series or movie if you don’t enjoy it
If this resonates with anyone please #boost this post so it reaches someone else who may need to hear it.