@bloor amongst the many things that should be taught at a national scale is simple risk assessments and how just because a thing has happened once it doesn’t suddenly make it a thing that should have the most extreme mitigation measures applied.
@bloor depending on the age of the kid I have sympathy for the parents, I definitely did some stupid shit as a teenager, but it never got that stupid because me and my friends were all brought up to have at least some respect for things that could kill us.